Thursday, June 25, 2020
5 To-Dos Before Graduation
Whether youââ¬â¢re rejoicing or mourning at the conclusion of the school year, the days weââ¬â¢ve got left are disappearing fast. Itââ¬â¢s a weird kind of time for seniors, one in which nobody really knows how to feel. Nostalgic about our fleeting youth? Excited for the transition into ââ¬Å"adulthoodâ⬠? Thereââ¬â¢s definitely some fear and anxiety that needs be accounted for tooâ⬠¦ All of these emotions are merging, tangling, settling into those pits in our stomachs. But before that final graduation walk comes, there are a handful of must-do things while still in high school. à 1.à Actually show up Donââ¬â¢t deny it, if youââ¬â¢re a senior and youââ¬â¢re reading this, chances are that youââ¬â¢ve skipped some (or a whole lot) of your class periods. (Itââ¬â¢s totally inconspicuous to have four ââ¬Å"dentist appointmentsâ⬠in two weeks.) Trust me, I get it: APââ¬â¢s are done. Youââ¬â¢re into college. Why bother going through the motions, right? Wrong. This is where I get to insert that good old, ââ¬Å"You donââ¬â¢t know what youââ¬â¢ve got until itââ¬â¢s goneâ⬠saying. Do not underappreciate the familiarity of your high school ââ¬â the campus, the people, the daily walking path that youââ¬â¢ve established for yourself between bells. There is nothing worse than breezing through the final stretch and wishing you hadnââ¬â¢t. Senior year should be savored; there are so many little interactions ââ¬â jokes tossed around by teachers, head nods given in the hallways, that youââ¬â¢ll never get to relive in quite the same way. 2. Break from the routine Itââ¬â¢s almost impossible not to have a steady pattern at school. Go from point A to point B, do homework here at this time, eat lunch in that spot â⬠¦ And thatââ¬â¢s all well and good, but with the weeks dwindling down, the end of senior year is just the right time to try something a little different. Explore your own campus a bit more. Make use of the resources that you havenââ¬â¢t before. (I checked out my first high school library book just last week. Iââ¬â¢m quite pleased with myself). If you never go to sports games ââ¬â go to one, at least once. Revel in the experience of cheering your heart out. Or see the last school theatre production. Maybe a band concert. Most seniors get more time in their schedules when graduation nears, and Iââ¬â¢d highly recommend optimizing that with as many new experiences as possible. 3. Donââ¬â¢t just ââ¬Å"HAGSâ⬠It might have worked for sophomore year (and maybe even junior year), but writing ââ¬Å"Have a great summer!â⬠in someoneââ¬â¢s yearbook is the equivalent of saying, ââ¬Å"Hey, youââ¬â¢re a decent human being that I have hardly interacted with; allow me to be polite and sign your yearbook.â⬠Itââ¬â¢s senior year guys ââ¬â itââ¬â¢s your last yearbook ever ââ¬â so donââ¬â¢t waste the space by being lame. Your peers deserve to know how much they have meant to you along the journey, and by being sentimental youââ¬â¢ll get more sincere notes of your own. 4. Collect contacts I hate to break the news, but most of the people in your senior class are going to fade into the background once college starts. It just happens. But you know what can prevent it from happening (at least marginally)? Exchanging info. Iââ¬â¢m talking cell phone numbers, emails, Skype names, Snapchats ââ¬â heck, share youââ¬â¢re MySpace if you want to (is that still a thing?). The more ways you have to reach out to each other, the better the odds are that you actually will. Believe it or not, high school connections can come in handy down the line if youââ¬â¢re looking for internship help, traveling to different cities, needing a place to crash, etc. But theyââ¬â¢re also just a great way to keep a part of home with you as you go planting new roots elsewhere. 5. Handwrite thank you letters Iââ¬â¢d say this is probably the most important thing for every senior to do. Weââ¬â¢re all headed exceptional places, but quite frankly we wouldnââ¬â¢t be without the support of some very key people: our teachers. The good ones, in particular. The ones that like to check in with us, help expand our perceptions of the world. Teachers are such a fundamental influence in our growth as free-thinking individuals, and the least you (and I) can do is share a fraction of our gratitude. Hand written letters are as personal as they are thoughtful (anyone can send a quick email), and Iââ¬â¢ll bet you anything that teachers arenââ¬â¢t nearly as used to getting them as they should be. So take a week where you write a letter a night ââ¬â I guarantee that youââ¬â¢ll be directly responsible for bettering someoneââ¬â¢s day.
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